Firstly, I want to tell about women & men behavioral differences. For a long time, I see different meaning to men and women communication. Generally women use mimic, posture,gesture and voice tone in daily life.But men use a more less mimic,posture,gesture and voice tone.
The importance of communication , interpersonal communication use of couple. Also the nature of women being are more emotional ,more complex and irrelevant maintance behavioral. But men have more static, more lineer thinking than the women.
In my experience, when I see some couple particularly women want to heard romantic words.But the most important thing for a woman feel the true love and trusting her boyfriend or husband.If a man understand in this sense ,he always uses this!But in that time women says:
“If you love me you must be…….or you should….your sentences not enough for me” Because when women say something to her husband they don’t explain sentences meaning of all, they don’t react accurately and so forth women expect be understandable by men.Then men cannot be an understanding person for a woman.
This problem almost have several couples in my observation.The other part of thing is lifestyle in couple.Women want shopping for instance and like talking about other women besides men talk about sports & money.
Their interests also different then they talk about some argument.Because of collective idea is found difficulty from each other.They discuss more and more time when I saw them in my daily life.
The good communication has a few of couple when I observed.Because of man acted rationally , women reacted emotionally. The main differences are these I think!
Zülal Karapanca
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